I used to think over on things/people I had and lost and wondered why they didn't stay or how silly some slipped away. It bothered me for awhile and while I was listening to a podcast from TD Jakes, this was what I caught.
Many relationship weren't made to last...
God will send people in your life for a season cause you needed them at that time in your life
and if they walk away,
don’t stand at the tomb of what used to be and cry over what was because if you had needed them for the future they would have stayed!!
All that left couldn’t stay and all that stayed couldn’t leave!
What a clarity!